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purplecaramelHonestly, not everything is that deep. Shaming the whole damn world ain't gonna make for a better world.
My best friend offered to host a baby shower for me. I actually feel guilty about that because I was working too much to do the same for her when she had her baby a few years ago. I have a sense of fairness that irritates people like it's a character flaw. I know the world isn't fair, but I don't see why I shouldn't try to be.
Um, so anyway, now with the coronavirus, I feel like having a baby shower would be seen as immoral even though it wouldn't be a large group and there wouldn't be anyone over 60 or immunocompromised there. And that got me thinking about how a lot of young queer folks don't interact with people over 60, so may well be judged for living life as normal, when the circumstances for that were caused by past global and personal crises.
I know people will judge anyone for anything. I don't. That's an actual ethics fuck, passing judgment to people whose circumstances you know nothing about.
My best friend offered to host a baby shower for me. I actually feel guilty about that because I was working too much to do the same for her when she had her baby a few years ago. I have a sense of fairness that irritates people like it's a character flaw. I know the world isn't fair, but I don't see why I shouldn't try to be.
Um, so anyway, now with the coronavirus, I feel like having a baby shower would be seen as immoral even though it wouldn't be a large group and there wouldn't be anyone over 60 or immunocompromised there. And that got me thinking about how a lot of young queer folks don't interact with people over 60, so may well be judged for living life as normal, when the circumstances for that were caused by past global and personal crises.
I know people will judge anyone for anything. I don't. That's an actual ethics fuck, passing judgment to people whose circumstances you know nothing about.
